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Stacy Fountain's avatar

I love the “in real life” test. Engagements are broken often in real life and I think Rosemary’s comment to Elizabeth, (“perhaps that’s what engagements are for”), in response to her feeling awkward about what the town was thinking about their broken engagement, was a nod to this idea. I’m also pondering the ways that both Elizabeth and Nathan have grown over seasons 9 and 10. I think the detour was necessary for the growth.

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Lauren Morton's avatar

Another great post, Cara. I think the map and detour analogy is a great one. Looking at all of this from a macro, holistic view, the detour makes sense in the N&E journey. It also makes their love story genuine and beautiful to have overcome so much. Without going into too much of a rant. I’m not so sure what their intentions were when they put E&L together at the end of s8 (maybe just get another season). For me the message in s8 ep12 was pretty clear there was no hope for the N&E lifetime to happen. I know what happens in real life (engagements sometimes end), but with all the drama with the triangle and just the show itself… I didn’t think they would come back around to Nathan. Had I thought there was any chance I would have probably kept watching at least on some level. But the writing choices did not leave any room for that… at least for me. I understand wanting not to be predictable and the goal of telling a long story… but I do think you have to make some effort to lead your audience a bit. I suppose TV is different especially when you are having to fight to stay on the air season after season not to mention dealing with different writing teams over the years with different writing philosophies and styles… I’m sure planning ahead/“beginning with the end in mind” can be a challenge, so I recognize that. I also think because of the storytelling choices that happened in s8, they are getting some of the reactions and fans not believing or being able to follow the story… because frankly there was a lot that didn’t make sense in s8… so when you try to lead the audience in s10 with coherent storytelling they aren’t picking up on the clues. Anyway here I said I wasn’t going to rant. Sometime I feel like we could have a conversation about the dark days, but more and more I just want the light of s11 that is to come. Thank you again for another thoughtful post. Oh yes… in real life engagements do end and there is nothing wrong with it. I have told all of my friends I’d leave the truck running if they changed their mind at any point up until the “I do’s” on their wedding day. Ha! None have taken me up on it, but the offer was still there. 😆

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